Seeking to experience an intimate Melbourne escort date with all the trimmings? In this article I dive deep into why you should experience an Intimate Melbourne Escort dinner date…
Intimacy:
it’s a craving we all have. A psychological need that is programmed into us. We look for it in each other, in stolen glances as we lock eyes while rolling around in the sheets together, in pursuit of something more than an hour together can fulfil.
My clients often come to me seeking intimacy, whether they know it or not. Sometimes they think they are seeking just sex – a quick fix, something to scratch the itch, fill the void. Yet when we’re alone, just the two of us, they realise they are looking for something more. They are seeking a deeper connection. They are seeking trust. Vulnerability. Emotional intimacy. Something more than meets the eye.
There’s nothing wrong with a quick and uncomplicated tryst that satisfies a sexual fantasy. In the right moment, at the right time, this can be the answer. But, when you are craving something more, there’s contrived about meeting only for an hour. Ultimately, emotional intimacy is the foundation to a deeper connection and a more meaningful relationship. And true intimacy can’t be built in an hour, even by the most skilled individuals.
The digital world is rapidly changing the way we connect. We text, we Tweet, we browse Instagram while we wait for our takeaway coffee before we rush to our next meeting. We are constantly connected, but we don’t feel connection. We are left lonely, distance, unfulfilled, and wanting more.
When we give ourselves time to naturally unfold in each other’s company, anything can happen. Relaxing over dinner or a drink in the ‘real world’ builds connection in a way that the contrived setting of a white-walled hotel room will never allow.
The predefined role of an ‘escort’ often comes with a predefined expectation: quick rendezvous, no-strings-attached, one before moving onto the next. There is an expectation of being everything in such a short amount of time. We forget to stay curious and allow interactions to play out naturally. To create true connection, we need to carve out moments that allow for conscious connection.
Taking the time to eat together is an intimate act in the modern world. It is one of my favourite ways to deepen the connection with one another, as it allows us to focus on each other as people. Not only this, but I love having the opportunity to share my love of food and wine with others. During our intimate Melbourne dinner date, we can stop to be curious, we can learn, and we can get to know each other in a new or different way.
If you are seeking something more…
If you have felt unfulfilled or empty…
If you’ve had an encounter that was lovely, but you somehow felt it was contrived or hollow…
I encourage you to construct a situation in which you can truly relax and connect. When you feel genuinely relaxed and in touch with yourself, you can participate more fully, mindfully and meaningfully. I’ve included some of my favourite restaurants in Melbourne below, for those who wish to explore the idea of building a deeper connection. Or, perhaps you’d prefer to show me your favourite haunt in your hometown? There’s nothing like an evening or weekend away together to increase intimacy and intensify a relationship.
Some of My Favourite Melbourne Restaurants
Embla
Wine Bar (with a whole lot of food)
Kisumé
Japanese with Australian sensibilities
Minamishima
Intimate Japanese Dining
Tipo 00
Pasta Bar